The story of our life

Last week, my wife and me were married for 33 years.
That day we were very busy with the re-decoration of our house so we decided not to party. However, a few days later our daughters and sons in law invited us for a dinner in a fabulous restaurant. We had a wonderful night together as a family. The days after, I had the time to look back at these 33 years. I came to the conclusion it were amazing, fantastic, tough and rough years. In the beginning we could not have enough time to spent in each others arms. Both we were raised as responsible and undependable persons, and all we needed was each other. Those were years of working hard to stay in a financial healthy situation. We decided that my wife would stop working to raise our daughters, while I continued to make career. We had great times, all went well and reasonably comfortable. For the outside world it seemed it could not go better. What they could not see is that we had also real tough times. As a family we were very close and not prepared to show our struggles to the outside world, even not to each other sometimes. And every time, our love won the battle. I remember that after a quarrel we could never go to sleep without having a good discussion, gaining understanding about the situation, and making it up again. Most of the times this happened when we were gone to bed not having distraction from other things like the TV. Yep, those were the nights that we fell asleep after 4 AM.

Both, we had bad times, situations in which we were hospitalized and struggling for our lives. I think, only a few know about these times, and what we endured in these periods. We were afraid, angry and I remember I prayed asking for help. And every time I found that energy to receive or give love and reach out for life. We learned to trust, to assist each other in every situation and I saw how immense beautiful our relationship was. And it still is after 33 years of marriage.


I was born to live an experience as an human. The moment I arrived on earth I made the conclusion that I had to make this place an heaven on earth, because it sure did not feel that way. And sure I did not expected it to be like it was. What I did not realize then, is that I was already in a place that was heaven on earth. I made up all these experiences to learn that I am the creator of my own life, my own happiness. A long time my wife and I thought we were dependent on each other, reaching out hands in assisting to climb the staircase to heaven. Now that we realize that we are independent, and creating our own experiences, life is becoming incredible beautiful. My dreams all came true, something I never could have dreamed off....and I am still dreaming of more to come. I learned to live them. We can change our lives, it has nothing to do with getting older or gaining more insights. We know it all already. It is just our soul that wants to experience some experiences. The soul exactly knows what we need to grow and get access to the insights deep inside of ourselves.

It is with great gratitude that I look at my life, how it was and how it is going to be. And with a great bow I greet and thank every person in my life to have played that main role, to reflect what I needed  to learn.  My wife, my children, family and you dear reader gave me all the opportunity to discover who I really am. And it is still going on.

Life is just starting, life on earth is a playground of joy and happiness, every day is colored in the most amazing ways and I let myself be surprised what every new day will bring. This time we can feel the spring in our bodies more than ever. It is a new start of many exciting and beautiful things to happen. And it is my intention to live this life to the fullest I can, together with my wife and family.
If you want to join us in this celebration of life, you are welcome.

Greeting from my heart to your heart,
In Love, Light and most of all Laughter.

Peter